What is an Exceptional Marriage? As two people join together, their shared life can become truly exceptional when there is also a marriage of security and adventure, individuality and intimacy, harmony and conflict, the cozy and the erotic, the powerful and the most vulnerable.
Where do we learn how to be a couple? Who teaches us to navigate conflict, to get through hurt, anger, raising children, sexuality issues, the aging process?? Who teaches us to be open hearted, to be real, to risk loving deeply, to fly together?
It’s hard to believe we have been married 30 years. Like most of you in long term relationships we have lived through peaks and valleys over the course of these three decades. From possessed lovers to obsessed parents and through the emergence of our life work together it has been , well, everything imaginable.
Over the course of these weekends, you will discover a powerful and transformative new way to be with your partner. Here, you will learn to release fear-based patterns of interacting, how to harness the power of conflict, and move into greater heights of compassion, spontaneity and eroticism with one another.
Exceptional Marriage Mentoring (EMM) grew out of an imperative to find a new way of working with couples that did more than “save marriages.” We took on the task of integrating the body-based work we had been trained in, as well as our own 35 year connection along the way.
The idea for couples in community evolved from our recognition that the committed relationship is one of life’s most difficult undertakings. As couples we need other couples to support, encourage and challenge us to be real with each other. Paradoxically, being in a committed relationship can, at times, feel incredibly isolating. Because, as a couple, partners are so close to each other, it is easy to get lost in the trees and miss the forest.
This November come to the Berkshires for an exciting five day exploration into body-based psychology. You will have a great opportunity to not only dive deep into our Exceptional Relationshipapproach to embodied couples work, but you will also explore several other wonderful modalities. In addition to our work, you will study Hakomi, Rubenfeld Synergy, and Focusing.